Raising three boys has its challenges. I found that instilling good manners is essential to maintaining some semblance of order. Following simple rules of etiquette displays a sense of respect for those you are interacting with, whether it be at the table or in a conversation.
It takes persist training to get a teenage boy to “mind his manners” at the table, especially when his brothers are within range of a friendly arm punch or earshot of a cheeky comment. Whittling down the rules of etiquette to a simple few that can be applied across situations allows for a consistent message and enforcement. As the queen of etiquette, Emily Post, said, “Manners are like primary colors; there are certain rules and once you have these you merely mix, i.e., adapt, them to meet changing situations.”